If you're looking for out-of-the-box bachelorette party ideas, we've got a few you might not have thought of. Sure, clubbing in Las Vegas or tipsy traipsing through New Orleans are great, but they've been done. And you don't want to throw a regular bachelorette party; you want to throw an Instagram-worthy one. So make it a night the bride will never forget with a fun-filled fête that strays from the ordinary.
We've got tons of great inspo to help you throw an unforgettable bash that everyone will be talking about. Read on for 30 bachelorette party ideas you haven't heard of.
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Eat, Drink, and Shoot (With Your Camera)
You're probably planning on having some tipsy fun at your party or getaway, but it doesn't have to be the whole plan. In Santa Barbara, there's an Eat This, Shoot That tour that's perfect for bachelorette parties. You can tour and taste your way around the Funk Zone's hip eateries, sip and explore the Santa Barbara Wine Collective, savor the flavors of Solvang, or plan a custom experience—all while learning photography and Instagram tips from a professional photographer.
Have One Last Sail Before the Veil
So many parties are limited to crowded bars or lounges, so why not give yourself a chance to have fun on the open sea? If you live near the water (or are having a destination bachelorette, like in Cabo, where Seashine Adventures offers a yacht charter), you can rent a boat for a day and call it "The Last Sail Before the Veil." Bring food, drinks, music, and your swimsuits, and make a party of it! You'll get out on the water, soak in some sun, and do something less traditional than a night of clubbing.
Go for a Distillery Tour
But pick one with some eye candy: In Virginia, distilleries are hot—from whiskey to moonshine—and so are the distillers. Check out the boys behind Belle Isle Moonshine, which also has great cocktails. Or, go see all the music and mayhem that can be found in Nashville and take a tour of the Jack Daniel's distillery, just a short ride away, while you are in town. If you want to go more West Coast, consider You & Yours Distilling Co., California's first urban destination distillery led by women, in San Diego.
Be Sassy, but Artful
The Artful Bachelorette is an incredible live drawing class—but oh-so-much more. It's not only a classy yet sassy party option, but it's also an amazing experience. We'll let this one speak for itself.
Go to (Adult) Camp
Club Getaway, based in Kent, Connecticut, (about two hours outside New York City), would make an amazing destination for a bridal party looking for pre-wedding laughs. On the weekends, this adults-only camp lets you act like a kid but with booze and grown-up fun. There are drinking games like beer pong, campfires, great food, and tons of other activities and adventures. If you can't make it to Connecticut, Camp No Counselors is an all-inclusive experience with lodging, meals, and an open bar that has camps in 16 cities across the U.S. and Canada.
Rent a Home—and Make a Party of It
Have an Under the Tuscan Sun–type moment and rent a villa in Tuscany, like one of these at Castelfalfi (it even makes its own wine and olive oil on the estate). Instead of competing against other bachelorette groups at hotels, friends are guaranteed to have a place to relax in and call their own.
Hire a Flytographer
You’ve no doubt had an engagement shoot with your honey, so why not do a photoshoot with your other loves: your friends! Check out Flytographer, which allows you to hire a photographer for a customized shoot in more than 250 cities around the world, whether it’s where you live or where you’re partying. The pro will lead you to the best local haunts and most Instagrammable spots; you just focus on your outfits.
Get Creative With a Paint Party
You can also get your creative juices flowing with a tamer option than the aforementioned live drawing: a bachelorette paint party. There's no telling what you can paint when you have a glass of wine (or two) and a blank canvas—or, try your hand at ceramics. Pottery is becoming quite the rage. Plenty of studios host classes, and many, like Choplet Ceramic Studio in Brooklyn, New York, allow BYOB.
Embrace Nature With a Camping Trip
Whether it's traditional camping or cushy glamping, a weekend outdoors lets you commune with nature for an unforgettable bachelorette party with hiking, fishing, swimming, campfires, and s'mores. If your bride squad is more prim than primal, opt for glamping to get a taste of the outdoors without a lapse in luxury. Decked-out tents like those offered by Under Canvas ensure comfort, and flat irons are just as welcome as campfires and roasted marshmallows. With all the natural light and rustic backdrops, you’ll have plenty of great shots.
Relax With a Staycation
You know that popular photo with all your gal pals in matching PJs on a fluffy white bed? That could be you, too. Instead of heading to the airport, make your destination a nearby luxury hotel—it’s time for a “suite” staycation. Book a large room (or the penthouse) and bring your overnight bags; you’re in for a night or two of unlimited room service, movies on demand, and Champagne.
Wind Down With a Spa Day
While a booze-filled bachelorette-party weekend with friends may appeal to many brides, others are looking for a more low-key wellness getaway. Destination spas, like Canyon Ranch and Cal-a-Vie, have seen an increase in the number of brides swapping a traditional bachelorette party for a wellness weekend. We totally get it: Wedding planning can be stressful, and a few days of quality R&R is a great way to unwind and bond with your besties.
Get Gorgeous With a Glam Squad
Get that ring light ready—you’re in for a show-stopping look. Book a glam squad, such as Beautini, to come to you with all the goodies to totally beautify. After you and your BFFs get your smoky eyes and beach waves, pose like Gigi Hadid at a fashion show. You’ll definitely want to upload these photos.
Hit the Country Music Capital
Cowboy hats, boots, and honky-tonks make for some serious Insta-game, so it’s no wonder Nashville is a hot spot for destination bachelorettes. Head to the country music capital for tours of the Grand Ole Opry, Broadway’s strip of music establishments, and plenty of Tennessee barbecue and whiskey. You never know, but you just might run into a country music star for the ultimate photo op.
Throw a Beach Party in Miami
With gorgeous sunny weather, an über-trendy nightlife scene, and beautiful beaches, the Instagram opportunities are endless in Miami—especially if you're booking a retro-glam Miami Beach hotel or renting out an epic villa. Set up shop in a colorful cabana by the pool, indulge in boozy Popsicles, and snap some pics on those pool floaties that are all over your Instagram feed every single summer.
Have a Classy Tea Party
For a bride-to-be that likes fancy dresses and fine china, you can't go wrong with a bachelorette tea party. Gather up the squad and get to cheers-ing with tiny teacups, delectable scones, and finger sandwiches. Historic hotels like New York’s Plaza Hotel host classic tea services while London’s The Berkeley has the innovative Pret-a-Portea, with nibbles inspired by the latest runway fashions from designers like Prada and Manolo Blahnik. One added perk: Most afternoon teas include Champagne, so be sure to toast with bubbles in hand.
Get Rowdy in the Wild Wild West
Bring on the BBQ! Something about cowboy boots, denim, and admittedly even some cow print just feels right. Or, maybe we're all suckers for a great hat opportunity. Whether you book a group ticket down South, host a wild west-themed party in the desert, or just test who can last the longest on a mechanical bull ride, this bach theme doesn't disappoint.
Learn Some Dance Moves
Who doesn't love dancing with their besties? Get the squad together and hit up a series of dance classes to refine your moves. Spice things up with a pole dance course, get down to some belly dancing, or hire someone to help choreograph moves for the wedding. You'll be dance-floor ready in no time.
Zen Out With a Yoga Retreat
For the to-be-wed who loves yoga, there's nothing more exciting than practicing with best friends. Grab your mats, leggings, and matching bride-tribe shirts and help channel peace, love, and light to combat wedding-planning stress. We love Yoga for Bad People's retreats for getting Zen while also making sure to party the bachelorette way. These retreats balance the yogic lifestyle with your real one, meaning there is time for adventurous activities like surfing and hiking, plenty of delicious (and sometimes less healthy) local bites, and, of course, cocktails.
Thanks to this Georgian city’s Southern charm, delightful hospitality, food-focused culture, and open-container laws, it’s become quite the destination for a bachelorette celebration. Savannah is easily walkable and bikeable, and there is no shortage of brew bike companies, such as the Savannah Pedal Pub, where you can sip as you pedal through the Spanish-moss-lined streets on a party bike. Don't worry a non-drinking driver is doing the actual steering.
Immerse in Mindfulness
Sometimes all a stressed-out bride needs is a bit of mindfulness. Elevate the whole bachelorette group to a healthier state of mind by booking into a transportive sound bath or a grounding meditation. You'll all walk out relaxed, re-centered, and rejuvenated for the upcoming wedding festivities.
Let It All Out in Paintball
Or, perhaps the bride-to-be needs to channel all that energy in a different way. Suit up and hit the paintball course for an exhilarating experience that lets you leave it all on the field. There's nothing more satisfying than just laying into a target in the name of recreational fun.
Host a Luxe Slumber Party
Once upon a time, receiving a slumber party invite was on par with securing Met Gala attendance. Revisit peak teen festivities by hosting a luxurious iteration of just that. Invite the VIPs over for a night of chit-chat, nostalgic snacks, and dancing in your pajamas to old-school tunes. You can even set up a movie projector in the living room or backyard and create a screening experience you'll never forget.
Break (and Make) Bread Together
A bachelorette party that also imparts crucial life skills? We were skeptical too—but a cooking class just adds a little something extra to a dinner night out. Book a private in-home class or attend a variety of culinary classes at places like Eataly or Sur la Table and prepare to get your hands dirty. The whole crew can learn to make a meal from handmade pasta to sushi and enjoy their handiwork at dinner post-class.
Sip Through a Winery Tour
If your group is partial to wine nights or has an affinity for a particular red (or white), few bachelorette party ideas will top a winery tour. Hours of sipping on a variety of well-balanced vinos while sampling cheese platters and basking in the dappled sunlight with your besties is nothing short of heaven. You might even discover a new favorite to showcase at the wedding.
Brave an Epic Hike
On the more active end of the spectrum, undertaking a dynamic hiking trail as a group can be incredibly rewarding. You'll push through the physical trials and tribulations of the terrain, possibly release some emotional baggage along the way, and ultimately arrive at an unreal panoramic vista as a result. Now that's a day well spent.
Whether you're a skeptic or a die-hard devotee, there's something quite magnetic about the mysteries of all things woo. If the crew is down for a bit of mysticism, why not explore the spiritual side together? Attend a tarot card, tea leaf, or palm reading for a bit of insight or have a professional draw up your natal charts. You'll either learn something totally worthwhile or just get some new stories to fondly look back on.
Get Down to Disco
Okay, it doesn't have to be disco but if you're going for a karaoke night it might as well be sequined. Book a private karaoke room or try an at-home setup and get ready for a night of belting epic tunes in genre-appropriate costumes. Disco makeup, platforms, and big hair are non-negotiable.
Explore on a Local Tour
From tours of haunted houses to hidden gems, many cities offer off-the-beaten-path guides to what makes the place so unique. It’s likely your town or destination has options, too. Look up Airbnb Experiences for inspo on excursions, including food tours, waterfall-accented hikes, and bar-hopping with a local. You’ll get a rare look at the city and have fun exploring something new with your closest friends and family.
Ride a Wave of Nostalgia at an Amusement Park
Nothing says adrenaline-pumping bachelorette party like a visit to the amusement or water park The rush of nostalgia, the buzz of the high-intensity rides, the competitive edge of carnival games, the sugar high of delectably dangerous snacks—what more could a person want? Just don't forget the comfortable kicks and VIP guest passes so blisters and long lines don't kill the mood.
Attend a Music Festival
Music festivals naturally lend themselves to memorable group outings. Between the tunes, the dancing, the food, and the outfit opportunities, there's not a single bachelorette party checkbox that doesn't get ticked. Check out SongKick for upcoming festivals in your area and if you're pressed for options, there are plenty of outdoor concerts that fit the bill, too.
What is a bachelorette party?
A bachelorette party is a celebration of the bride-to-be's upcoming marriage and their last experiences being single. While it's traditionally carried the stigma of a last fling of freedom it's become a beautiful capsule of quality time between the bride-to-be and their close friends and family.
Who plans the bachelorette party?
Usually the bachelorette party is planned by the maid of honor or the bridesmaids as a group. Sometimes immediate family members will take charge of the plans or the bride-to-be herself will take the reins. Whoever takes the responsibility should communicate with the rest of the group to ensure multiple parties aren't planned simultaneously.
Who gets invited to a bachelorette party?
The maid of honor and bridesmaids are always invited to the bachelorette party. Sometimes invitations are extended to close family members and friends who aren't directly a part of the bridal party. Guest list choices are always left to the bride-to-be regardless of who plans the bachelorette party.
Who pays for the bachelorette party?
If the bachelorette party is just a one-night celebration, it's customary that everyone in attendance pays for their own share as well as their portion of the bride-to-be's expenses. The bride-to-be should not be paying for anything. If the events span over a weekend or longer, each person (including the bride-to-be) should pay for their own share of the expenses as if it were any other trip. For the key celebration (or big night out) during this timeframe, the previously mentioned rules apply where the bride-to-be covers none of the expenses incurred that night.
When should the bachelorette party take place?
Typically a bachelorette party takes place one to four months before the wedding. This can be flexible depending on personal preferences, seasonal requirements, or availability of the group.
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Typically, the Maid of Honor and bridesmaids split the cost of the bachelorette party. The bride's expenses (including her drinks, meals, and transportation) are split evenly between the bridal party.How do you throw a classy bachelorette party? ›
- make the bride feel luxurious. First let's start with the overall vibe of the weekend. ...
- Rent a House. ...
- manage expenses without drama. ...
- Hire a Photographer. ...
- Choose classy bachelorette shirts. ...
- include a message from the groom. ...
- Wine Tasting. ...
- *Hire a local photographer for a photoshoot with all bachelorette party attendees.
- *Present the bride with gifts with her new monogram or married name.
- *Decorate the hotel room or Airbnb with balloons and other fun bachelorette decorations.
- *Have a sash/crown or other fun accessories for waiting for the bride.
Typically, the Maid of Honor and bridesmaids split the cost of the bachelorette party. The bride's expenses (including her drinks, meals, and transportation) are split evenly between the bridal party.What is a reasonable amount to spend on a bachelorette party? ›
On average, women spend about $250 per day on a bachelorette party, with one-day bachelorettes starting on the low end of around $150, and five-day bachelorettes reaching around $1900 on the higher end.What do most girls do at a bachelorette party? ›
Many people choose to celebrate their bachelorette party at a bar or club, but other fun ideas include enjoying a spa day, going on a beach trip, or even going wine tasting. No matter what the activity is, the most important thing is that the bride and her friends have a good time!
- Matching Bridal Robes. A really trendy gift is to get the whole wedding party is matching robes or PJs, with a get a special robe for the bride. ...
- Monogrammed Tote Bags. ...
- Wifey. ...
- Personalized Ring Box. ...
- Gag Gifts! ...
- Cozy Loungewear. ...
- Personalized Dress Hanger. ...
- DIY Keepsake.
These leads got a proposal from their final choice and remain married. The overall success rate for "The Bachelorette" is therefore, slightly higher than its male counterpart, clocking in at 22%.What is the five second rule Bachelorette? ›
Printable Bachelorette Game: Name 3
If you name three in five seconds, you keep the card. If you can't name three, you pass the card to the next person in the circle and they try to name three…but they can't repeat any of your answers! Keep going until someone can name three in five seconds.
As the maid of honor you, with the help of the bridesmaids, will be responsible for finding accommodations, planning activities, and planning transportation for the bachelorette party. Usually the bride will lay out where she wants to go, but leave the rest of the major details to the maid of honor and bridesmaids.
The average bachelorette party has 10 people in attendance. This is typically the bridal party, with the addition of one to four close friends of the bride. The number of guests and who is invited might change depending on the size of your bridal party, and the activities and events of the bachelorette party.Who pays for goodie bags at Bachelorette? ›
The maid of honor and bridesmaids will typically split most of the expenses for a bachelorette party. This includes things like party favors, decorations, food, drinks, and any other necessities for the night.What does the maid of honor pay for? ›
The maid of honor, along with the rest of the bridal party, is expected to cover all wedding attire costs. This includes the dress (plus any necessary alterations), shoes, and any jewelry you'll be wearing the day of. Occasionally, the bride will gift her bridesmaids with whatever accessories she wants them to wear.Who prepares The Bachelorette party? ›
A bachelorette party is usually planned by the maid of honor. The maid of honor will utilize the wedding team of brides maids that you put together to plan and coordinate the ultimate surprise. However, planning travel and certain events cannot be done without your involvement.Does maid of honor pay for bridal shower? ›
While the maid of honor usually initiates the efforts, they are not expected to pay for the entire bridal shower. To get the ball rolling, they should approach the mother(s) and wedding party members and clearly state what they are willing to pay or contribute (over and above buying a bridal shower gift).What do bridesmaids pay for bachelorette? ›
Who pays for what at the bachelorette party? Traditionally, the maid of honor and bridesmaids pay for their own travel expenses while splitting all accommodation costs equally. Additional expenses such as decorations, favors, and accessories should also be split evenly among the bridal party.Do guests pay for themselves at bachelorette party? ›
The bridesmaids and other guests will often chip in to cover the bride's share of the single evening, as well as covering their own costs. That's one upside to heading out on the town with a bigger group. Of course, this depends heavily on the wishes of the bride and the group as a whole.How long is too long for a bachelorette party? ›
If you're planning a destination bachelorette party, more than five days could be considered too long of a celebration. Keep in mind that your intended guests will likely need to take time off from work or have other commitments, and making the party longer than a weekend could prevent them from coming.How early is too early for a bachelorette party? ›
So, What's the Sweet Spot? The best time to host your bachelorette or bachelor party is between one and four months before your wedding. It will serve as a fun milestone to meet on your way to the altar, as well as help you and your guests budget their time (and funds).How many days is a typical bachelorette party? ›
Bachelor and bachelorette parties tend to last one to two days. As you're penciling in those dates when your bachelor or bachelorette party will happen, you're probably also considering how long the festivities will last—and it turns out that these events are lasting longer than ever before!
It's a tradition to give a bride a gift at her bachelorette party but it's not at all required. Unlike the wedding gift, this present is just for her, so go for something sentimental and/or fun. Joke gifts from party shops are often exchanged since this event tends to be a bit more light and high energy.Do you take gifts to a bachelorette party? ›
Bachelorette party gifts aren't mandatory, but they are nice. If you are shopping for a bachelorette party present for the bride-to-be, think outside of her wedding registry. Lingerie, for example, is a fun gift option perfect for the intimate occasion.How can I surprise my bachelorette? ›
- Book a trip. Get together with the other bachelorettes and book a surprise trip. ...
- Design matching attire. ...
- Make a photo or video montage. ...
- Murder mystery game. ...
- Go to an escape room. ...
- Hire a photographer. ...
- Put on a lavish spread.
It entirely depends on your dynamic with your mother. If you feel extremely comfortable and your bridesmaids agree, you can call your mother to your bachelorette party. However, if you don't want your mom to be there, you need to be upfront and honest with her.Can bride throw her own bachelorette? ›
Who Throws a Bachelorette Party? A bachelorette party is traditionally planned by the bride's maid of honor, a small group of bridesmaids, or a small group of close friends, but there are no set rules here! It's perfectly fine if the bride wants to handle planning herself.How do you tell the bride the bachelorette is too expensive? ›
- Talk in person. Since the bride is probably really looking forward to her bachelorette party, it's important to have this conversation in person and not over text or email. ...
- Be straightforward. ...
- Send something. ...
- Plan a more low-key celebration. ...
- Offer to help organize.
"As a whole, there are only 9 couples together from the 42 seasons of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette since 2002. That's a 21.4% success rate," Somers explains.Do relationships from Bachelorette last? ›
Since “The Bachelor” debuted on ABC in March 2002 and “The Bachelorette” the following year, only six couples who met on those shows are currently married. A seventh is expected to wed in May.How many guys does The Bachelorette start with? ›
Bachelorette contestants 2022: Meet the 32 men chosen for Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia.How many nights should a bachelorette party be? ›
"A perfect length for your bachelorette party is four days—best to do as an extended weekend so your girls don't have to take off all four days from work," says Lauren Grech, CEO and co-founder of LLG Events.
In the 21st century, a bachelorette party is generally defined as "a gathering" for a bride before she marries. The party is usually hosted months in advance of the couple's nuptials. However, there are instances when the bash is held the week of the wedding and sometimes even after the nuptials take place.What not to do at Bachelorette? ›
- Don't peer pressure the bride. ...
- Don't get too wild. ...
- Don't bail on your friends. ...
- Don't complain about money. ...
- Don't invite extra friends. ...
- Don't get dramatic. ...
- Don't mess with the plan. ...
- Don't get too boozy.
The maid of honor is in charge of the bachelorette party and bridal shower as well as leading the rest of the bridesmaids throughout the planning process and on the day of the wedding. Traditionally, a bride appoints a sister, female relative, or best friend as the maid of honor.What should bridesmaids pay for bachelorette party? ›
Who pays for what at the bachelorette party? Traditionally, the maid of honor and bridesmaids pay for their own travel expenses while splitting all accommodation costs equally. Additional expenses such as decorations, favors, and accessories should also be split evenly among the bridal party.Does the bride pay for bachelorette party activities? ›
Traditionally, the only person who doesn't pay for the majority of the bachelorette party costs is the bride. This especially rings true when the bash is an in-town celebration (consisting of a single night out)—as opposed to a weekend away, which is where things get a little more nuanced; more on that shortly.How far in advance should a bachelorette party be? ›
The consensus around when exactly the bachelorette party should fall tends to be one to four months before the nuptials, with the sweet spot around two months prior. You want to build excitement leading up to the wedding, so having it too far in advance might lose some of the momentum.Who pays for the bridal shower? ›
Standard etiquette dictates the person hosting the shower would be the one who pays for it. However, if multiple people are hosting the shower (or if multiple people want to contribute to the event), that's absolutely fine too.How far in advance do you send bachelorette party invitations? ›
Send bachelorette party invitations three to four weeks in advance, or at least eight if guests will be traveling or celebrating for more than one night.Is a gift expected at a bachelorette party? ›
Bachelorette party gifts aren't mandatory, but they are nice. If you are shopping for a bachelorette party present for the bride-to-be, think outside of her wedding registry. Lingerie, for example, is a fun gift option perfect for the intimate occasion.Does the mother of the bride go to the bachelorette party? ›
It entirely depends on your dynamic with your mother. If you feel extremely comfortable and your bridesmaids agree, you can call your mother to your bachelorette party. However, if you don't want your mom to be there, you need to be upfront and honest with her.
"Typically, the bachelorette party is reserved for your bridesmaids and maybe a few of your closest friends and female family members," Harrison says. "This can change depending on the type of celebration you want and the activities you end up choosing."